There is no operator for not matching sequences in regular expressions (just items to match [^a] is translated to anything but a, [^ab] is anything but a or b not b a followed by b). It is still a matching statement
There is however a negative look ahead which says if this happens discard match. This however does not work in the general case only if its positional. To give a better answer you should post some examples of what your actually matching.
An alternate strategy might to match everything then discard the unwanted things. For example if you wanted to delete all except years in:
Benjamin 1996 Mark 1999 Mia 2005
And used find:
.*?(\d{4})[^\d]*
Replace:
Year: $1~b
would result in:
Year: 1996
Year: 1999
Year: 2005
When replace all is chosen. If you want to do the reverse then just match for \d{4}
and replace with nothing...
[..]
characters. So that includes the curly quotes. You may want to brush up on them.